Saturday, November 14, 2009

Fourteen Months!

River is 14 months old now!

Recent developments:
  • Can say: Light, kitty, and Hi in addition to "ma ma ma ma", "da da da da" and "mi mi mi mi."

  • Has started pointing at everything.

  • Blows on his food when it is hot (and sometimes when it is not). Seriously this is the cutest thing I have ever witnessed in all of the years of my life.

  • Climbs (or at least attempts to climb) everything in sight. With no regard to the heart attacks his attempts can cause Cory and I. I have been trying to work with him on proper climbing techniques so that through all of the panic and fear it induces he can develope the motor skills and the thought processes required to use the right limbs and grab in the right places to successfully and safely make it up whatever he is climbing.

  • Standing on his own for up to 30 seconds. He is still not walking and is only mildly interested in it. We encourage it as often as possible but are trying not to push him too hard. I didn't walk until I was 18 months! Also, some research shows that the longer a baby crawls the better fine motor and cognitive skills they have as children.

  • Makes the sign for milk but uses it simply as an indication that he wants whatever you have. Probably because I always made the sign while asking him, "Do you want milk?" I guess he picked up on "want" as opposed to "milk."

  • Picks up a cell phone (or any object similar in shape) and puts it to his ear and pretends he is talking on it.

  • Has 8 teeth on the bottom (including 2 molars) and 6 teeth on top (including 1 molar).

Favorite Activities:

  • Crawling and climbing all over things.

  • Pounding on the keyboard of our laptop. Yes, I know we will one day regret indulging this activity. It is just so cute because he'll bang away at the computer and then put his hand on the mouse and move it around like he knows what he is doing.


  • Driving trucks or anything that he can push on the carpet like he can push his trucks.

  • Playing with our kitty Louie.

  • Wrestling and snuggling with our dogs. Tonight he was having his own little rodeo. He would stand up using the support of the dogs and see how long he could hold on and walk around using their support before they got away from him. At which point he would either sink down to his knees or collapse into giggles on the floor.

  • Putting tops on and taking them off whatever has a top. Bottles, tupperwear, babyfood jars, etc.

  • Putting objects into and taking them out of a container.

  • Building with and knocking down blocks.

  • Coloring with crayons, pens, and watercolors on any item he wants to make his canvas... Our walls and couches have served this purpose several times.

He is also developing more of an attention span for reading and loves to flip through the books. It still isn't captivating for him but at least it has progressed from me reading to him while he played with other toys because I couldn't get him to sit on my lap and listen! Now I either read one book and give him another to look through or if he can turn the pages in the book well I let him flip through the pages and just read the page he opens it to. Out of order and lots of repitition but hey at least he is showing more interest in it!


One morning River found this baby doll barrette in a container of my old hair items. In high school and college I wore them often. The first thing he did was put it up to his hair because apparently he knows that is where they go? I don't know where he picked this up as I don't use barrettes anymore but somehow he figured it out. So later that night when he put it up to his hair again I obliged and snapped it in and of course snapped a few pictures. Good to know he is in touch with his feminine side.

Tuesday, November 3, 2009

A game of cat and mouse.

I've so many posts that I have to put together that they are creating a serious traffic jam in my head. I will also have pictures of Montana and Halloween posted soon. However, I wanted to really quick tell a heart warming event I witnessed tonight before River went to sleep for the night.

Currently we have two dogs and one cat. And the cat, Louie (a girl), would be more accurately described as my cat. She was my cat for 3 1/2 years before I met Cory and once we started dating things went bad between the two of them. There is no love lost between Cory and Louie. They have a mutual hatred for each other. A deep seated and long running hatred that even my best efforts have yet to pacify. She has never had much patience for little kids either and of course (as it always seems to work out) River ADORES her! Though the dogs love River, want to play with him and take his pinches, smacks, and ear pulls in stride, River would prefer to play with Louie. Perhaps because she is smaller and has more colorful long fur, etc. than the dogs she has had more appeal to him. And it isn't just Louie. It is all cats. Samson, the cat at his Nanny Debbie's house is equally as interesting and Gala's cat Fig finally had to swat at River to get him to leave him alone when we visited them in Montana.

Tonight when I brought River downstairs to put him to bed he saw Louie laying at the bottom of the stairs and indicated with outstretched hands that he wanted to get down and play with her. Louie immediately got up as usual since she knows that River is still working on the whole concept of petting and is currently in the hitting/fur pulling phase. So she ran into the laundry room and River crawled after her. Then she ran out of the laundry room and into his nursery. He then proceeded to crawl after her. They continued this back and forth for almost 5 minutes straight. And River was having so much fun and giggling so mischievously that I was practically in tears laughing so hard. Finally I took River upstairs to see if I could rock him to sleep as he was now 1 hour past his bed time. As I related the story to Cory it finally dawned on me that Louie, the anti-child cat was PLAYING with River! If she was really that irritated by River she would have run off and hid or jumped up on the washer or drier to avoid him. I was so proud at that moment of my cat and my son for playing together. I hope they continue to do so because River just might be able to bridge that gap between his cat and his dad :)